Big Talkers And Partners
It came to my attention when I was meditating recently that I really don't like to talk. Talking tires me out, and even though I'm considered a good conversationalist, I prefer NOT TALKING and just BEING with others.
This desire to be quiet must be why I've picked--unknown to me at the time--men that have their Dragon's Head (The North Node) in Leo. My longest three running relationships (two husbands and one significant other) have all had their North Node in Leo conjunct my Venus.
According to the Cafe Astrology website, this conjunction is interpreted this way:
"Venus conjunct, sextile, or trine other person's North Node
This pairing is a strong indication of a binding tie between you. You are likely to find it easy to cooperate with one another, perhaps even combining your talents successfully. A major focus of this relationship is romantic love, and in all likelihood the feelings for one another were instant. There is a true feeling of enjoyment and pleasure with one another."I'm sure all of the above is true, but in my case, I've experienced three men with North Nodes conjunct my Venus, and they all were Big Talkers and Loved To Be The Center of Attention! I think I chose them (subconsciously maybe?) because then I wouldn't have to do the talking! I knew they would take up the slack in conversations with others.
"We are not the same persons this year as last; nor are those we love.
It is a happy chance if we, changing, continue to love a
changed person" W. Somerset Maugham